Jews For Islam
Testimonies of Jewish Converts To Islam
(8) Kari Ann Owen
In the Name of Allah, most Compassionate, most Merciful
Sister Penomee (Dr . Kari Ann Owen)
A salaam alaikum, beloved family. "There is no god but Allah, and Muhammed is his messenger ."
These are the words of the Shahadah oa th, I believe.
The Creator is known by many names. His wisdom is always recognizable, and his presence made manifest in the love, tolerance and compassion present in our community
His profound ability to guide us from a war -like individualism so rampant in American society to a belief in the glory and dignity of the Creators human family, and our obligations to and membership within that family This describes the maturation of a spiritual personality, and perhaps the most desirable maturation of the psychological self, also.
My road to Shahada began when an admired director , Tony Richardson, died of AIDS. Mr . Richardson was already a brilliant and internationally recognized professional when I almost met him backstage at the play Luther at age 14. Playwriting for me has always been a way of finding degrees of spiritual and emotional reconciliation both within myself and between myself and a world I found rather brutal due to childhood circumstances. Instead of fighting with the world, I let my conflicts fight it out in my plays. Amazingly, some of us have even grown up together !
So as I began accumulating stage credits (productions and staged readings), beginning at age 17, I always retained the hope that I would someday fulfill my childhood dream of studying and working with Mr . Richardson. When he followed his homosexuality to America (from England) and a promiscuous community, AIDS killed him, and with him went another portion of my sense of belonging to and within American society.
I began to look outside American and Western society to Islamic culture for moral guidance. Why Islam and not somewhere else?
My birth mother’s ancestors were Spanish Jews who lived among Muslims until the Inquisition expelled the Jewish community in 1492. In my historical memory, which I feel at a deep level, the call of the muezzin is as deep as the lull of the ocean and the swaying of ships, the pounding of horses' hooves across the desert , the assertion of love in the face of oppression.
I felt the birth of a story within me, and the drama took form as I began to learn of an Ottoman caliph’s humanity toward Jewish refugees at the time of my ancestors' expulsions. Allah guided my learning, and I was taught about Islam by figures as diver se as Imam Siddiqi of the South Bay Islamic Association; Sister Hussein of Rahima ; and my beloved adopted Sister , Maria Abdin, who is Na tive American and Muslim and a writer for the SBIA maga zine, IQRA. My first research interview was in a halal butcher shop in San Francisco’s Mission District , where my understanding of living Islam was profoundly a ffected by the first Muslim lady I had ever met : a customer who was in hijab, behaved with a sweet kindness and grace and also read, wrote and spoke four languages.
Her brilliance, coupled with her amazing (to me) freedom from arrogance, had a profound effect on the beginnings of my knowledge of how Islam can a ffect human behavior .
little did I know then that not only would a play be born, but a new Muslim.
The cour se of my research int roduced me to much more about Islam than a set of fa ct s, for IslamIs a living religion. I learned how Muslims conduct themselves with dignity and kindness which lifts them above the American slave market of sexual competition and violence. I learned that Muslim men and women can actually be in ea ch other s’ presence without tearing each other to pieces, verbally and physically.
And I learned that modest dress, perceived as a spiritual state,can uplift human behavior and grant to both men and women a sense of their own spiritual worth. Why did this seem so astonishing, and so astonishingly new?
Like most American females, I grew up in a slave market , composed not only of the sexual sicknesses of my family, but the constant negative judging of my appearance by peers beginning at ages younger than seven. I was taught from a very early age by American society that my human worth consisted solely of my attractiveness (or , in my case, lack of it ) to others. Needless to say, in this atmosphere, boys and girls, men and women, often grew to resent each other very deeply, given the desperate desire for peer acceptance, which seemed almost if not totally dependent not on one’s kindness or compassion or even intelligence, but on looks and the perception of those looks by other s.
While I do not expect or look for human perfection among Muslims, the social differences are profound, and almost unbelievable to someone like myself. I do not pretend to have any answers to the conflicts of the Middle Ea st , except what the prophets, beloved in Islam, have already expressed. My disabilities prevent me from fasting, and from praying in the same prayer postures as most of you.
But I love and respect the Islam I have come to know through the behavior and words of the men and women I have come to know in AMILA (American Muslims Intent on Learning and Act ivism) and elsewhere, where I find a freedom from cruel emotional conflicts and a sense of imminent spirituality. what else do I feel and believe about Islam?
I suppor t and deeply admire Islam’s respect for same sex education; for the rights of women as well as men in society; for modest dress; and above all for sobriety and marriage, the two most profound foundations of my life, for I am 21 1/2 years sober and happily married. How wonderful to feel that one and half billion Muslims share my faith in the character development marriage allows us, and also in my decision to remain drug- and alcohol-free. what , then, is Islam’s greatest gift in a larger sense?
In a society which presents us with constant pressure to immolate ourselves on the altars of unbridled instinct without respect for consequences, Islam asks us to regard ourselves as human persons created by Allah with the capa city for responsibility in our relations with other s. Through prayer and charity and a commit tment to sobriety and education, if we follow the path of Islam, we stand a good chance of raising children who will be free from the violence and exploitation which is robbing parents and children of sa fe schools and neighborhoods, and often of their lives.
The suppor t of the AMILA community and other friends, particularly at a time of some strife on the AMILA Net , causes me to affirm my original responses to Islam and declare that this is a marvelous community, for in its affirmation of Allah’s gift s of marriage, sobriety and other forms of responsiblity, Islam shows us the way out of hell.
My husband, Sila s, and I are grateful for your presence and your friendship. And a s we prepare to lay the groundwork for adoption, we hope that we will continue to be blessed with your warm acceptance, for we want our child to feel the spiritual presence of Allah in the behavior of surrounding adults and children. We hope that as other AMILA’ers consider becoming new parents, and become new parents, a progressive Islamic school might emerge... progressive meaning supportive and loving as well as superior in academics, arts and sports.
Maybe our computer whizzes will teach science and math while I teach creative writing and horseback riding!
Please consider us companions on the journey toward heaven, and please continue to look for us at your gatherings, on the AMILA net and in the colors and dreams of the sunset .
For there is no god but Allah, the Creator , and Muhammed, whose caring for the victims of war and violence still brings tears from me, is his Prophet . Asalaam alaikum.